Saturday, November 16, 2013

It Takes a Village - Some Thoughts on Going Back to Work

So, I'm back at work. Full-time. And yes, it has been a bit of an adjustment. In fact, I'm still adjusting. But so far, so good I think. And largely due to our amazing support system. Last week I whined publicly on Facebook about not having family in town. I got caught up feeling sorry for myself. And while life would certainly be a bit easier (or a lot) if we had family in town, we are still so blessed. I shouldn't have complained. Since I've been back at work, our family and friends have been incredible!

We have two wonderful sisters (twins actually) keeping the kids at our house for us on Mondays and Fridays until the end of the year. One comes on Mondays and the other on Fridays. The kids love them and it makes Mon/Fri so much easier on me! So thankful for this family and for the fact that they have practically become a part of ours!

And while we may not have family IN TOWN, both families do live within a shortish driving distance and I'm thankful for that. That is the main reason we chose Memphis to be our home nearly 10 years ago and I'm so glad we did! Huge shout out to both my parents and in-laws for volunteering to step in and help any way they can. We've already taken advantage of the offer! The kids had a great time in Arkansas last week while I was on a business trip to NYC.

Last but not least....our friends here are amazing! From leaving a surprise home-cooked meal on our doorstep (which brought me to tears) to heart-felt text messages, I have felt the love in so many ways!

How could I have complained about not having family in town? As the Thanksgiving holiday quickly approaches, I think this year I'm most thankful for not only my immediate family but also for friends that are, for all intents and purposes, family.


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